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JoJo wrote:

I have become bitter and cynical at the age of 18 due to dying friendships. I don't understand why it is that the moment a friend becomes romantically involved, he or she completely forgets that I exist. Nearly every person I know is paired up with someone else I know of the opposite sex and now that they have each other they don't seem to need me. I am not jealous. I know that the last thing I need before heading off for college is a relationship. But i sure could use some friends who don't "love me then leave me" if you will, when friendship isn't convenient anymore. Generally speaking, what are some good qualities to look for in a friend? Are there people out there in the world who can actually handle both friendships and romantic interests all at the same time? Your thoughts are much appreciated. Thank you.

From: Elroy - 07/20/2002

Affirmative. Any mistake in this calculation can only be due to human error.

From: TheSleepwalker - 07/21/2002

What kind of a loser would hang out with mere friends when romance awaits them?

From: slackerkat - 07/21/2002

the bitterness and cynicalness will only grow with age. don't fight it, give in. come quietly to the dark side....

From: discohog - 07/22/2002

You must not let people 'love and leave' you..instead, continue to 'love' but then preemtively leave them first...tell them that their friendships are no longer convenient to YOU, and if they have a problem with that, toss them a quarter and tell them to phone up someone who cares. Finally, flip them the 'bird' and go home to watch Jerry Springer and rejoice in your newfound independance. We're gonna make it afterall!

From: Sophia - 07/23/2002

who really needs friends anyway. friends are for the weak. also---ditch the kids from your hometown-you know you were only friends with them because they were there and there wasn't anyone else--you're going away, leave them behind. they suck.

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