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Nicole wrote:

Ok so I was engaged and we were all happy, or so I thought, then I told him that I was pregnant and he freaked. He was a heavy drinker and drug user and but said he would do right by me when we got engaged that lasted for a week after he fund out I was pregnant. So he decided we needed to take some time apart I said fine and I started to resent him and left. So he tells me he loves me and I come back, he treats me like shit and tells me I'm always around and he hates it but the says he doesn't mean it he's just mad. I'm now 6 months and don't know what to do. I know that people say I should leave but I have a baby girl on the way and she deserves to know her father. He continues to use on a regular basis and says he dosen;t have a problem but if he's not high or drunk he's a dick. He can't go a day without getting high or he starts going through withdrawl and starts again. He uses 2 to 3 times and says that's occasional. He was arrested last summer and just got enrolled in ASAP has piss tests and won't stop. I love him to death and I really am onfused if there wasn't a baby involved I coukd pick up and go but I can't do that now. It's also not easy after so much time and effort has been invested. I recently found out and he finally admitted to sleeping with this barely 16 year old girl and he's 19. He was with her while we weren't togther but then I fould out when we were trying to work things out he was sleeping with her behind my bac. His mom uses to so he doen't see where I'm coming from and why I think he should settle down now he has a daughter on the way and when I said I had to stop he told me that I made my choice. Yes I did but I don't believe in abortion, I don't condem people that do it's there choice but I can't and wouldn't do it. He told me this just last week, after he's felt her kick and has seen her move. How could he say this about our daughter at this point in our life and what do I do that's best for me and the baby, and that's easiest. People say he'll come around when he see's his daughter and hold her but I'm so lost and scared that't I really don''t know anymore!!

From: TheSleepwalker - 05/05/2002

"I know that people say I should leave but I have a baby girl on the way and she deserves to know her father." Genetics does not a father make. I think she deserves not to know him.

From: sparklypia - 05/06/2002

He's using and his mother does too...this means, he isn't a good role model...you need to find support and help elsewhere, your town or city should have support for you! Get out of the situation for the SAKE of your child!

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